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November 21, 2007

Bachelor Brad: I Didn't Fall in Love With Either Woman

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In an unprecedented move, The Bachelor’s Brad Womack shocked and disappointed not only Jenni and DeAnna, the last two gals remaining, but viewers all over the country on Monday night when he dumped both ladies and chose no one. The Austin native, dubbed the sexiest Bachelor yet, had some ’splaining to do afterwards and tells OK! why he had to break not one but two hearts.

“Right up to the very last moment I tried so hard,” Brad tells OK!. “I truly did try so hard to believe that something could happen. And then as soon as that morning came and that day came, I was thinking, ‘Okay, well, I just don’t feel it.’ I knew it was going to be a tough road, but I didn’t want to lead any of the ladies on. That’s why I told them both good-bye.”

Brad went into the show as the 11th Bachelor with the best intentions, believing “anything is possible.” And while Jenni and DeAnna were both head over heels in love with Brad, professing their infatuation, the bar owner didn’t feel the same way, saying that although they both possess “every quality that any guy wants,” he ultimately was unable to fall in love with either of them.

"I didn’t have that wild-and-crazy, over-the-top feeling of being in love you get when you fall in love," he says.

Although the public reaction to his decision has generally been negative, Brad has received comments from both ends of the spectrum. "A lot of people hate what I did, a lot of people like what I did. For the most part, in Austin the response has been really positive, and I’m grateful for that because I love this city — it’s where I live, so I’m glad I’m not getting beat up too much."

For now, the 35-year-old — who, contrary to reports, never got back together with his ex — plans to "take a little time off" from dating. But when he's ready to get back in the game, don't expect to find him on another reality show.

"I wouldn’t do this again, and only because, let me say this, I loved my experience, I really did. But just being scrutinized so much is getting old," he says. "I didn’t quite know what I was getting into, having my public life out there. I got what I signed up for, so I can’t complain.


"How do I go about finding the love of my life?" he continues. "Maybe getting back with my ex — I’m kidding, of course. I don’t know, how do people find it? They always say you find it when you’re not looking for it. I’m just ready to go back to work and live a normal life and hopefully I’ll meet her."

By Delaina Dixon


 

 
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Bachelor Brad: I Didn't Fall in Love With Either Woman

i guess each woman knew that there was a chance that they wouldn't be picked to be his bride, but they each tried there hardest to get the chance to BE his wife. That usually means that one of the girls ACTUALLY BECOMES HIS BRIDE! It was almost as if he was just leading them on or just serial dating or something. that just mkes me mad at Brad.

megison SUN DECEMBER 30, 2007 3:15PM
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Shannon213, the BIBLE says Proverbs 18:22; Hello, the man was looking!!!! Let Shemar Moore go on The Bachelor; I'm applying just to meet him and get his autograph! I have graduated college 8 times and counting: doctor, lawyer, dentist, flight attendant, home-owner, hotel owner, tax preparer, just to name a few! blessedmsfarmer

blessedmsfarmer TUE DECEMBER 18, 2007 4:22PM
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Well good on you Brad, don't waste your time, it does not mean to be gurls

islandgurl MON DECEMBER 10, 2007 8:42PM
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WHY???!! Why didnt he give them a chance? Just a chance was all they needed for all their dreams to come tru. those are too classy ladies and theyre dreams are forever destroyed becausee of that asshat. they will never be whole after what he did to them. Shame!

MuffinPants MON DECEMBER 10, 2007 12:24PM
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Only desperate and pathetic people go on a show to find "love". What kind of self esteem issues are these nutjobs dealing with?

FRI DECEMBER 7, 2007 1:46PM
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At first I was mad but then realized he did the right thing since he didn't want to hurt them, but damm he didn't have to propose. He could of at least given one of them a chance to date in "the real world" he sure did a good job pretending he was falling in love, I feel bad for the girls because they got their heart broken on national tv, that sucks!

b-love SAT NOVEMBER 24, 2007 10:19PM
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OK, I love The Bachelor on ABC. I want Shemar Moore to go on there when the time is correct. I would apply just to meet him and get his autograph and picture. The MAN is supposed to look for the woman...Until next spring when the new season begins, ......blessedmsfarmer

blessedmsfarmer SAT NOVEMBER 24, 2007 2:49PM
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Mr Brad, I was glued to the tv like everyone else. And when you chose no one, I was mad at you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But, after I calmed down, you were right. (1)Your GUT feeling said something is not right. That is why God gave them to us to warn us of trouble. (2)Love is not forced; it is natural. (3)I myself have heard love finds you when you are NOT looking for it. (4)I respect you for being honest with the girls because it WOULD HAVE BEEN WRONG TO LEAD THEM ON... I hope to get married next year at 35 and be married forever. Until REAL love finds you and I, I hope your life returns back to normal. blessings, blessedmsfarmer

blessedmsfarmer SAT NOVEMBER 24, 2007 2:45PM
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The title of this article speaks for itself on him. "In Love" is an infactuation, an expectation, an image, a perfection that can't be achieve. Ask any marriage counselor or phychiatrist. People can make most relationship work if they consider it work (excluding domestic abuse). Though this article is about him, it can definitely speak for the women audience to stop daydreaming and start verbally communicating to men.

fish192 SAT NOVEMBER 24, 2007 1:31PM
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In Hell, this would be one of the tv shows constantly on.

R SAT NOVEMBER 24, 2007 11:07AM
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I agree with anoni_mouse. The reality is this the show is taped in 6 weeks (some of the girls that left earlier on said they were starting to fall in love?); how much is really just acting? If Brad didn't feel it, why get mad at him? My mother always said that I would know when the right man comes along...I thought, yeah right...until I met my husband and then I knew exactly what she meant. Now, I didn't fall in love with him at first sight, but it did take more than 6 weeks (at least 3 months, HA). Anyway, "reality" shows are not really reality. I like watching the Bachelor because of the humor, all those women making fools of themselves, priceless.

Vintoyz FRI NOVEMBER 23, 2007 11:59PM
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"I didn’t have that wild-and-crazy, over-the-top feeling of being in love you get when you fall in love," he says." here's a clue brad, that's lust not love. and if you do feel it, it won't last, can't last, and if you think it's love, your 'love' will never last and wil always be a disappointment in the end.

yoduh FRI NOVEMBER 23, 2007 10:47PM
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What a lot of fuss over nothing! Brad had every right to tell both women goodbye. If the spark isn't there, you can't force it. I think it's unreasonable and selfish of people, including ALL the rejected women, to think that Brad is somehow in the wrong for being honest with them and not leading them on any further. He was obviously trying hard to make it work with one or both of those women, and then on the day of the Final Rose Ceremony (FRC) he realized, that no matter how hard he was trying, he hadn't fallen in love. Brad definitely did the right thing by ending it then and there. The fact that Deanna doesn't understand what happened is sad for her, but he has already made it quite clear that he wasn't in love with her, and that he didn't want to continue having a relationship, when those feelings didn't materialize. It's not HIS fault they fell in love with him and he didn't fall for them. It's unrealistic of the women on this show to think that they can create a long term relationship, or find true love on a reality dating show. The nature and format of the show, creates unrealistic and time constricted situations, that aren't conducive to falling in love. The women seem to feel overly competitive with one another, when they MAY NOT (under normal circumstances) be so intensely interested in The Bachelor. That, along with the fact that the women are often fighting amongst themselves, and trying hard to get the Bachelors attention and affection, creates a situation where the Bachelor is going to feel a general level of mistrust towards the women. This is not going to help him fall in love. Couple those factors, with the topsy-turvy format of - Women chasing men, instead of the usual Men chasing women, and The Bachelor is unlikely to think that any of the women are indeed, much of a prize. Brad may have genuinely liked, respected, even admired the last 2 remaining women, but he didn't want to be in a serious relationship with either of them and that seemed very obvious to me, as a viewer. If people can't understand that simple fact, then that's their problem, entirely. I don't understand why the viewers or the final 2 women felt duped. If Brad had voiced his true feelings of ambivalence to the camera, does anyone think the Producers and Editors would include that in the footage shown? No, of course not. If they had once shown Brad's true feelings towards the women, the ratings for the FRC would be abysmal! The fact that NOT ONE SINGLE Bachelor has ever married any of his bevy of 25 women, is proof and testimony, that this format just does NOT WORK. The female contestants and The Bachelor himself, don't stand a chance of finding true love or marriage on this show. Viewers should understand that The Bachelor shouldn't be under pressure to pick one or the other at the FRC, if he isn't interested in pursuing either. I think the show itself and it's format, exploits the women and The Bachelor. Having the women stand lined up, waiting for a rose, like they are in a cattle call, is humiliating and embarrassing. Additionally it places the Bachelor under intense pressure to continually make the right choice, whilst he can't help but feel guilt for having to continually reject women. It's not Brad's fault he didn't fall in love. The producers created a very bad format for a dating show, and they seem unable to find women every season that are attractive, articulate, educated, intelligent, interesting, charismatic, and emotionally mature.

anoni_mouse FRI NOVEMBER 23, 2007 7:29PM
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I watched the show night after night waiting to see which girl he would fall for and I personally thought either girl would be okay for him, but I like Deanna better than Jenny. When he chose neither of them, I was so furious! I can't and still can't believe that it happened...If it happens one more time next season or the season after that I think i might just blow my top and not watch the show anymore...Okay, actually I CAN'T NOT watch the show anymore, but I might still be mad at Brad. He seemed like such a nice guy, maybe he made the right decision after all, I mean if he didn't fall in love with either of them, then why should he have to marry them? I feel really sorry for all the girls though.. Especially Deanna because, he told her that he sent Jenny home making her think that she had won and could get engaged to him, and then he walk around messing with his shirt and dumps her! Well... what can I say besides that? nothing more. Sincerly, Princess_Noel

Princess_Noel THU NOVEMBER 22, 2007 9:25PM
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Frankly he knew the rules for the TV show game and he just want to leave his mark on the media, like a dog peeing on the President's leg!

fish192 THU NOVEMBER 22, 2007 7:42PM
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